The Winner is always part of the answer; The Loser is always part of the problem.
The Winner always has a program; The Loser always has an excuse.
The Winner says, “Let me do it for you;” The Loser says, “That is not my job.”
The Winner sees an answer for every problem; The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
The Winner says, “It may be difficult, but it is possible;” The Loser says, “It may be possible, but it is too difficult.”
When a winner make a mistake, he says, “I was wrong,” When a Loser make a mistake, he says, “It wasn’t my fault.”
A Winner make commitments; A Loser makes promises.
Winners have dreams; Losers have schemes.
Winners say, “I must do something;” Losers say, “Something must be done.”
Winners are a part of the team; Losers are apart from the team.
Winners see the gain. Losers see the pain.
Winners see the possibilities; Losers see the problems.
Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners see the potential; Losers see the past.
Winners are like a thermostat; Losers are like thermometers.
Winners choose what they say; Losers say what they choose.
Winners use hard arguments but soft words; Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
Winners stand firm on values, but compromise on petty things; Losers stand firm on petty things, but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy; “Don’t do to others what you would not want them to do to you;” Losers follow the philosophy, “Do it to others before they do it to you.”
Winners make it happen; Losers let it happen.
~ Anonymous
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